Announcing the HJ Matching Support—An Opportunity for True Mother’s 2025 Cosmic Blessing

Dear All,

We are excited to share the HJ Matching Support program, a unique opportunity for candidates preparing for the 2025 Cosmic Blessing to explore potential matches in a thoughtful and guided process. This program is designed to help individuals gain confidence in talking to different people, exploring potential matches, without the pressure of an official matching conversation.

If you're open to exploring potential matches in a guided, prayerful process, the HJ Matching Support could be the opportunity for you. The goal is to give candidates the chance to engage in 7-day conversations, helping them discover if they’d like to continue talking beyond that period.

How Does the Program Look?

The HJ Matching Support runs in 2-week cycles, with a total of 7 cycles available to participants. Each cycle provides a fresh opportunity to receive a new matching suggestion. However, suggestions are based on the available pool of candidates, including considerations of gender, generation, and age. Therefore, while the committee will do its best to provide suggestions, you may not receive one every cycle.

• Week 1 (Prayer Week): During this week, the Matching Committee will spend time in prayer to create thoughtful suggestions for each candidate. We encourage not only the committee but also parents, candidates, and matching supporters to join in prayer throughout this week. You can find the Prayer Week dates when you go to register you can find it on the website calendar.

• Week 2 (Conversation Week): This week provides candidates the chance to have a 7-day conversation with their suggested match. The purpose is to explore whether they’d like to continue talking beyond the initial conversation. Regular check-ins with parents or matching supporters are highly encouraged during this process. It’s a chance for personal growth without the pressure of making big decisions right away.

Parental and Matching Supporter Involvement

The role of parents and matching supporters is crucial to this process. We encourage parents to stay involved through regular check-ins, offering guidance, prayer, and support. We’ll also provide minimal guidelines to help structure these conversations, ensuring that the process can go as smoothly and productively as possible.

We also recommend that parents (or matching supporters if parents are not involved) meet at least once during Conversation Week to discuss the match and get to know each other. Open communication and prayer from everyone involved are key to making this experience meaningful.

Why Join?

This program challenges candidates to step outside their comfort zones, build communication skills, and overcome any fears around engaging with new people. The HJ Matching Support offers a supportive environment, focusing on exploration and growth.

By joining, you will:

• Challenge yourself through meaningful conversations

• Build confidence in talking with new people

• Receive support from parents or matching supporters through regular check-ins

How Does This Help Me Find a Spouse?

While these are matching suggestions, the program creates a valuable opportunity to explore meaningful connections in a spiritual, structured environment. You’ll have the chance to engage in several cycles, with up to 7 potential suggestions, broadening your opportunities to meet other candidates.

Registration Details:

To join, please click HJ Matching Support button above for more information and to complete your registration.

You’re welcome to register even if you haven’t completed the required tasks yet. However, to be included in a Cycle, please complete the following task

• Blessing4U Profile: You must create a profile onBlessing 4U. If you already have one, great! If not, and you're hesitant to make your profile public, you can create an invisible profile that will only be visible to the Matching Committee and Matching Supporters.

Scholarship Information: If financial reasons are a barrier for you to join, please send an email to northeasthq@unification.org. We have a limited number of scholarships available, so please express why you are requesting financial assistance.

The Blessing Ministry will start to host a weekly webinar with education for Singles, Couples, Parents, Matching Supporters, and Pastors. The first webinar will explain about “What is the HJ Blessing Guide and how to use it?” After the education, Parents and Matching Supporters will have the opportunity to Network and meet with each other. 

• When: Every Thursday ( Starting November 7th ) @ 8:30 PM EDT

If you are a Blessing Candidate, Pastor, Local community leader, Matching Supporter, or Blessing Interviewer you can now register and start to connect with your team, become a candidate, and receive some training on the new platform.

For Questions: Please email bfmtechsupport@unification.org.